I have met people, who though financially successful in their jobs, want
to retire by 40-45. In most cases I sensed some sort of burn out and
frustration in the background leading to the conscious mind seeking,
what it feels as, the best possible exit from the situation. In other
words, retirement by 40-45.
Of course it is the individuals choice. But, I felt it was not, at
least in most cases, a free choice - meaning not a choice born out of a
clear understanding of oneself. In most of the cases, I was reminded of
the following fabulously deep insight from the yoga sutra (chapter 2)
ब्रह्मचर्यप्रतिष्ठायां वीर्यलाभः
Brahmacaryapratiṣṭhāyāṁ vīryalābhaḥ
The
above sutra basically means, if one is established in brahmacarya, one
gains potency. Normally this is understood as, if one is careful about
ones sexual behaviour, one gains energy to pursue other activities in
life. This interpretation is of course true. Olympic level athletes are
indeed regularly advised to stay away from sex for a certain time period
before their performance. Nevertheless, this interpretation is at a
very gross level. There are deeper meanings (as always, with the yoga
sutra).
Brahmcaryam literally translates as 'moving
towards the Brahman'. This is no simple task. This means different
things for different people. Even for the same person, this will mean
different at different stages of life / in different situations in life.
To
understand what it could mean for one, one needs to look at ones life
and ones vision for ones life. This is just the first step and most
people do not even cross this. There is no concept of vision in most
peoples life. The subtext in most persons lives is avoidance of pain and
pursuit of pleasure. Of course, neither is this wrong nor are they
against brahmacarya when done in appropriate quantities. To figure out
what is appropriate, the vision becomes all important. Without a vision,
these two activities becomes the sole motto of life. But, when there is
a vision, all of life's challenges (pressure exerted by pain and
pleasure on ones life) are dealt with in order to progress towards the
vision.
So, at some stage of life for some people,
it might be important to choose a job purely for monetary
considerations. But, that may not be appropriate all along. If it
outlives its longevity, it will start causing trouble. This will become
evident by the loss of enthusiasm for work and life. This indicates that
one is going against brahmacarya.
I would wager that
most of the people who have spoken to me about retirement at 40-45
belong to this category. One has chosen a profession purely for monetary
purposes (though superficially one may claim one is interested in the
technical aspects of the job). It may even be for other purposes. But
those purposes have outlived their normal life span. But, the individual
is still stuck with it and the prana has become stale leading to
dullness and lethargy.
When one recognises this,
then one starts to question the lack of vision in ones life. The easiest
way to figure this out to ponder about the value ones life is adding to
the world. A deep vision emerges both gradually and as quantum leaps.
Slowly one becomes dissatisfied with every aspect of ones life that is
not in line with the vision. This fire of dissatisfaction engulfs one
and eventually all of ones life is aligned with some higher goal. This
process itself gives the energy needed to take the next step in the
process. This is brahmacaryam. Continuous refinement of oneself and
moving towards higher and nobler aspects of life.
A
person on this path clearly sees that there are a zillion tasks of high
importance to be done in this world and the world needs highly motivated
people with deep vision. The individual on the path of brahmacaryam
naturally and willingly take up those tasks that are appropriate for the
individual to deal with. There will be no slacking of energy as one can
get all the energy needed in the wellspring of energy within. One may
switch professions etc but there would be no retirement motivated by
lack of enthusiasm. Thus, any time one feels lethargic and dull about of
life, it might be useful to see which parts of ones life are not in
alignment with brahmacaryam. That's were work is needed to fix the
dullness!
1 comment:
More breeds more. Retiring at 40 to me, is like the story of cutting the hen to find all the eggs at once. Most of my colleague here have the same goal to make, save money so greedily that one can save himself from wither and tither in the economy and live without external dependence. There is more life in the present moment.
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