Sunday, June 30, 2013

Tiny black ants scatter

slow and smooth exhale
chaturanga dandasana
tiny black ants scatter

Saturday, June 29, 2013

The outgoing mind

Me and my wife were once visiting a friend in Thiruvallur, a small town about 45KM from Chennai. We first went to the lord of the town, Sree Vaidya Veeraraghavar and then on our way back were waiting to cross a junction. Out of the corners of each of my eyes, I noticed two bikes, each driving a little rashly with the intention of diagonally crossing the junction and driving on the wrong side. This, sadly, is a everyday occurrence in India.




Naturally, the two bikes collided with each other. The drivers escaped unhurt but there was minor damage to the bikes. I am sure people who to take to the roads in Indian cities regularly  witness these things. What followed next is also a common scene on Indian roads. Each party started accusing each other of driving incorrectly and let loose a slew of invectives. The hot sun made them loose their cool even more. After a few minutes of abusing each other, each party left on its own wrong way but not without continuously cursing the other party.

If one were an alien scientist trying to understand the mind of the human species, this incident reveals a fabulous amount of information. This information is at different levels of subtlety. At the gross level, one may conclude, there is scant regard for following rules unless they are physically enforced. There is a spontaneous refusal to accept ones mistake and apologise, even when ones actions cause harm and hurt to others. There is a lot more such information to be obtained at the gross level.

But the shrewd alien scientist will quickly spot that there are subtle components of the mind that are at play here. These subtle components are the ones that drive the gross components. Thankfully, one need not be an alien scientist to understand all of this. There is a part of us that can understand our own behaviour impartially and hence act with all the capabilities of the shrewd alien scientist. This part of us can at all times clearly notice that our minds instinctive action is to go outwards. By this, I mean, we like to blame external circumstances for the inconveniences caused to us (or at a minimum, put the root cause outside) - the words of in laws, the judgement of ones boss, the actions of subordinates at office, loud neighbours. It is always the other person who is troublesome. The mind can normally never acknowledge that it has also participated in creating the situation it finds itself in. This indeed is the very nature of the surface mind (which is the only part of our mind that is accessible to most).

But, when notices this and commits to oneself that one will turn the gaze within also, besides looking outside, one will find that there are countless opportunities to train oneself. If one gazes inwards too, each time there is such a situation, within a short period of time, the mind will become quite peaceful amidst situations which normally one would perceive as a crisis. This gives one the ability to deal with such situations skilfully while remaining completely peaceful despite the consequences.

The outgoing mind specialises in making rules. Most of us would have seen movies where the hero is madly in love with a girl who later on cheats him. This in different movies, either makes the hero a psychopathic women killer or a drunkard loser or a person with zero self esteem. In each case, the heroes mind picked up an opposite and made it a rule when what it was going after became too painful.


The mind that goes out all the time makes a rule about the external event based on whether the outgoing attempt was a success or a failure, especially if it was a failure. In case of a failure, the mind makes the opposite a rule (like the aforementioned heroes). This pair can be called a duality. The opposite for a given failure varies from mind to mind and this depends on its prior experiences and instincts. This state of being caught in such dualities can be transcended by watching the aforementioned duality regularly as it arises. Appropriate asana and pranayama practice, with particular focus on deep exhalation and hold after exhalation, helps a lot in the same.

There are other day to day examples of us making rules. For example, if one works to change something which stubbornly refuses to change (for example, a society that is unresponsive to the massive challenges ahead, or a depressed parent at home), there may be lot of failures even after many years of sincere effort. In such situations, one is tempted to conclude that the other can never change and that it is only oneself that can change. Such rules only expose the knots in one mind. The outgoing mind tried to change something and in the process got hurt as the desired change did not happen. Hence, it went to its opposite (which may vary from individual to individual) and says only oneself can change and the other can never change. But, instead if the outgoing mind is reigned in, then it is possible to see that one can be perfectly prepared to face reality without making rules. So yes, if a depressed person at home refuses to change, it can be hard and hence we can only work on ourselves from getting frustrated and angry. But, there is no need to make a rule that we can only work on ourselves. If one is free of the dualities that ones mind has created in the past, then, if the depressed person do lend themselves to change at some point, then we may work with them too.

Thus, by training the outward going mind to also gaze inwards, one can learn to be perfectly poised to face reality and therein flow the situation and make changes for the better as and when the opportunity presents itself.

वीतरागविषयं वा चित्तम्

वीतरागविषयं वा चित्तम् - Yoga sutras, chapter 1, sutra 37
To still a disturbed mind, get in the presence of a mind that is in no way disturbed by the same issues!


This means, if you are a counsellor, counsel only on those issues which one has reflected upon deeply for many years to obtain stillness even at the deepest sub-conscious level. Likewise, if one seeks counselling, find some one who qualifies in that fashion. If not, one might be better of handling ones troubles oneself.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Leaves of the peepal tree

After god knows how many years, heard the leaves of a peepal tree (Bodhi Satva tree / arasa maram) rustle in full glory! Every single leaf was dancing to the tune of the wind. Felt awesome to just be a witness to that. The sound still remains with me even after many hours.

Friday, June 14, 2013

வெறுமை

போகத்தில் வென்றவரே தோற்றவர் யோகமின்மை
கூட்டும் வெறுமையே சாட்சி

Saturday, June 08, 2013

அபானா கொன்ற மதற்கு

எப்பிரானா கொன்றார்க்கும் ய்வுண்டாம் ஊய்வில்லை
அபானா கொன்ற மதற்கு


Wednesday, June 05, 2013

அவா

அவாவை முன்னம் இழுக்கு என்றிருந்தேன்
அவாவினில் பெரும் ஆனந்தம் கண்டேன்
அவாவே வீடு செல்லும் வழியென்று
அவா வளர்த்தேன் என்னை அறிந்தேனே

Monday, June 03, 2013

மௌனம்

மலரினும் மெல்லிது மௌனம் அதில்
அழகாய் அமர்வர் அமரர்


Saturday, June 01, 2013

கைவல்யம்

வகுத்தவன் வகுத்த வகையல்லால் யோகா
புரிந்தார்க்கும் கைவல்யம் அரிது!

மனைவியிடம் நல்ல பெயர்

பொய்மையும் வாய்மை யிடத்த மனைவியிடம்
நல்ல பெயர் எடுக்குமெனில்!